How to deal with erectile dysfunction in a long-term relationship

Dealing with a partner's penis that cannot sustain an erection in a relationship can be a challenging situation, but there are strategies that can help navigate this issue with sensitivity and understanding. 

1. Communicate openly and empathetically with your partner about the situation. Approach the topic with love and understanding, making sure they feel supported and not judged.

2. Encourage your partner to seek medical advice from a healthcare professional to address any underlying physical or psychological causes of erectile dysfunction.

3. Explore alternative ways of physical intimacy that do not rely on penetrative sex. Focus on other forms of pleasure, such as oral sex, mutual masturbation, or using sex toys.

4. Seek out couples therapy or sex therapy to work through any emotional barriers and communication issues that may arise from the situation.

5. Practice patience and understanding with your partner - remember that erectile dysfunction is a common issue that many people face, and it does not define your relationship or your partner's masculinity.

By approaching the situation with empathy, communication, and a willingness to explore alternative forms of intimacy, you can navigate this challenge in your relationship with understanding and care.